Positivity

Every thought we think defines our future and the future of the world.  What we think we tend to speak it without realizing the influence that it may have on the other person. If someone offends us we try to offend them back, because we feel satisfied and happy.  But is this right?  Instead isn't it better to make them realise the mistake so that they don't behave the same way with others.  While most people agree that to you have to fight fire with fire, but is this always necessary? You can always use water.  Now the main question what is water,  I would say water is being positive.  All of us tend to be positive when we are strong when we are happy but when we are weak and hurt the positivity is gone.  The truth is, that is when we need our positivity the most.  Positive thoughts give rise to positive feelings which give rise to a positive future.

Positive thinking defined in Gandhiji's language is when someone slaps you on one cheek show them the other.  The result of it is not known but in our mind there is a positive thought. And it is said that a positive mind will be happy even in the worst situations.  He is one who can find an angel even inside a devil. And when you succeed in doing so you will be the happiest person alive.

This isn't an attempt to change the people around me but it is an attempt to influence or make the people think.  When you say something negative do realize that the people around you are also in the same negative mindset. When you can convey something positively then why use the wrong method. And yes we can't stop others from thinking negative but we sure can stop from negative thoughts being spread. Ask your inner self the truth because nothing good can ever be achieved by something negative.

Everyone comments on movies where Hinduism is targeted, protecting it and blaming another religion.  Why do u even have to think this way? Instead take the positive from these movies. If there isn't any positivity then let it go. Why the discussion?  I never understand why the things that are truly supposed to be appreciated are neglected and the things which have no reason or point of being discussed are hyped.

I have realized the power of positivity in my life.  And that is why I am able to say that the power of positivity is truly mesmerizing. I don't wish to change the world but I do wish to make people think and maybe affect a few people around me.  A person who is negative will find negativity on every single aspect even in the most purest thing existing called life.  On the other, a positive person will understand and find the tiniest bit positivity even in something as evil as war.  And it is left to you, to choose on which half we wish to belong to?

An Angel

Life is filled with unexpected twists. Some of them extremely difficult for us to digest. During these unfavorable situations our confidence, patience and self preservation are tampered. It is during these times that our mind is pessimistic. Even the smallest of worries cause great depression to the mind.

When I go through the dark phases of my life, everything around me made me diffident. It was like being caught in a well which went deeper and deeper. A time where even the closest of people hindered my trust. My spirits were low and circumstances exacerbated. When we isolate ourselves from the outside world and feel that no on will understand what we feel. That was when there came an angel. I would use the word angel because it was truly like he had been sent for me to guide me out. No matter what the situation I always have this angel wrenching me out of troubles and problems. When I held onto this angel that one positive sign overthrew all my negatives. It was my small little ray of hope. This small light grew to such an extent that there was brightness around me. Like it is said one sign of good is enough to take over all bad.

It is during these times that I realized that when we have to face darkness, we are not abandoned. Each one of us have an angel with us too. We are so involved in our lives and focus on the negativity that we tend to overlook that person who is willing to help us. When realization hits us, life becomes better. Communication is the key and finding that person who would listen to us is even more important.

And now what I do believe is that in future no matter how horrid things get I will always have an angel there for me. Each and every one of us also has an angel ready for us during our dark times. It can be anyone our parents, a friend and sometimes a stranger. Fight those dark times because " If winter comes, can spring be far behind? ".